The Best Way To Let Go Of Attachment While Manifesting

When manifesting, you have probably heard that you need to be detached, you need to let go, you need to let it be, need to surrender. This is really easier said than done in most cases. Because when you really want something, you get kind of attached to the idea of having it, wanting it, needing it.

There’s lots of ways to let go of attachment, but I’m going to give you the very first step that’s important and this is the first step in any aspect of manifesting.

Because you have to accept what is, exactly as it is. This step is really overlooked by people when they manifest. They go straight towards focusing on what they want and manifesting what they want and trying to believe it.

If you will just add this in as the most important step, the very first step, what you are manifesting will accelerate and you will start getting things faster and your beliefs will start coming in the way that you want them to.

The first step is accepting what is. If you would just spend a little bit of time practicing, accepting what is. You’d see a huge difference in your life very quickly. So how do you do this?

If you are attached to something and you know you are attached, you are attached to the desire, you are attached to the outcome, the first step is to let it be okay that you are attached. Notice that the first step is not to find a way to be detached. That’s the second step, the first step is to let it be okay that you’re attached.

“I am attached, I don’t want to be attached, it’s okay that I’m attached, of course I’m attached, I think it’s probably natural to be attached, aren’t all humans attached to things, everyone I know is attached to something.”

You want to drop the judgment that you are putting on yourself. You want to drop the resistance that you have, to being attached especially.

If you have been manifesting for a while and you have heard that it’s imperative that you let go and now you can’t let go, you’re going to create resistance by having this dichotomy of I have to let go and I can’t let go. You want to change that. Take a whole day and just embrace it.

“I can’t let go, that’s Who I am right now. I don’t know how to detach. I’ve tried everything or I’ve tried mouthing. I don’t even want to try. I don’t want to be detached.”

It doesn’t make a difference how you really look at it. You just want to embrace it. Let it be okay accepting what is. Not just about circumstances, you can accept your bank account, That’s a circumstance. You can access your state of relationships, that’s a circumstance. You can accept where you are in your life as a circumstance. But you can also accept how you feel. “I accepted I’m angry, I’m disappointed. I’ll accept that I’m disappointed.”

You can also accept the belief. I don’t believe this, I want to believe it, But I don’t believe it, I’ll accept that I don’t believe it.

You can accept anything like attachment or expectation because if you have expectation and you know you are not supposed to have expectation, you can’t fight it, you can’t get rid of it, you have to first embrace it. “I am attached, I have expectation.”

It’s okay, just play with that for a little bit and see if that helps. Once you do the first step, the higher mind and the Universe step in and start making it easier for you to do step two. Which is dropping the resistance, dropping the expectation, by giving you new information. But you are not going to get that information that’s going to help you actually do that until you accept that you are in expectation or you are in attachment.

So If you are attached to something, instead of trying to fight it, get rid of it. Understand it and just embrace it, own it, be it, be attached, let it be okay, do whatever you can to let it be okay.

Try that, see how that works and if you are attached to what you want, that is okay. Give yourself permission to be attached.